Tips on Etiquette:

Most places that make the invitations with have sample listings you can look at for wording:   
Correct way to word invitations if both sets of parents are hosting---Our society has always honored  this to the Brides Parents publically.  You can however mention the grooms parents by saying:---- Mr. and Mrs. Smith invite you to the wedding of "Brides first name", "Bride's Middle name" to "Groom's First", Groom's Middle", son of Mr. and Mrs. Grooms parents.

Polite way to say "No Kids!"

if on the addressed invitation does not say "and children" or "and family" then it should be assumed that children are not invited. Many people ignore this.  A possible solution is to arrange on site daycare.  Hire a baby sitter for the day or evening in another part of the hall where kids can play away from the adults.
If you elope...tell your family as soon as you return...this won't be easy and there may even be some sparks that fly, but in the end it should be OK. They may even want to throw you a party. Send announcements out to extended family.
Why should I invite the President and the Pope?
It's just tradition, besides many like getting the personal recognition from them when they refuse.
Adding a memorial
Appropriate at the ceremony; "In loving memory of"...can do a verbal reading or just a mention.  Speak to the officiant re: this.
Don't invite people you really don't get along with especially if they will make you miserable on your wedding day.  Try to repair and squabbles before the wedding.  If that doesn't work, do not invite them. (even if it's a sister or brother) I have seen too many times immediate family ruin special occasions for people.   It's not worth it.
Tips on ordering 
What is the turnaround time? What if there is a problem?
Delivery or set-up charges?
Can I see a proof of the invitation?
What about changes in the information?
What if I need to change the quantity?

 

Bridgeport
Action Printing 203-366-4413 Bridgeport
By Invitation Only 203-374-2888 Stratford
Celebration Station 203-452-1016 Trumbull
Celebrations 203-373-1718 Trumbull
Creative Designs 203-452-7590 Trumbull
Creative Imprints 203-268-6603 Monroe
Omega Art Studio 203-926-0409 Huntington
Post Scripts 203-259-4535 Fairfield
Antoniak Helen Greeting Cards 203) 334-1986
Brew Printing CO (203) 375-5861 Stratford
By Invitation Only (203) 374-2888
Calligraphy by Karen (203) 268-9406
Creative Printing Inc (203) 368-2866
Memorabilia Card & Gift (203) 377-0663 Stratford
New England Word Processing Center (203) 374-9936 Easton
Danbury
Carditique Shop 860-354-1685 New Milford
Celia's Hallmark 203-748-4345 Danbury
Corvin Printing 860-355-4148 New Milford
Gift Cottage 203-730-1000 Bethel
Minute Man Press 203-743-6755 Danbury
Papyrus 203-744-6445 Danbury
Party Depot 203-778-6886 Danbury
Party Shop of Connecticut 203-775-9805 Danbury
Right Type 860-354-1182 New Milford
Signed Sealed & Delivered 203-798-6011 Danbury
Sweets & Treasures 203-798-6411 Danbury
Wedding Essentials 203-846-8415 Danbury
Western Connecticut Litho 860-355-4933 New Milford
New Traditions 203-740-9220 Danbury
New Haven Area
Abbott Printing 203-562-5562 912 Dixwell Ave Hamden
The Added Touch 203-271-7904 1072 S Main Cheshire
Cindy's Hallmark 203-488-8994 Branhaven Plz Branford
Creative Studio 203-288-4265 165 School Hamden
Connecticut Print Service 203-272-7300 1701 Highland Ave Cheshire
Holiday House 203-735-8380 Derby
Ideal Printing 203-777-7626 288 Food Terminal Plz New Haven
P & S Printing 203-932-2196 27 Wagner West Haven
Printing Store 203-288-6401 2371 Whitney Ave Hamden
Ross Copy Center 203-933-8732 611 Campbell Ave West Haven
Upscale Events (203) 469-9110 New Haven
Special Occasions 203-234-2122 North Haven
Windsor Shoppe 203-239-4644 117 Washington North Haven
Write Approach 203-397-8272 1306 Whalley Ave New Haven
Watermark Creations 860-663-3912
Norwalk
Best Impressions 203-838-5579 Norwalk
Kleins of westport 203-226-4261 Westport
Lombardi Favors 203-834-9877 Norwalk
Party City of Norwalk 203-899-1288 Norwalk
Printemps 203-226-6869 Westport
Wedding Essentials by Ulrike 203-846-8415 Norwalk
Weston Pharmacy 203-226-1083 Weston
New London Area
Everything but theStamp 860-536-4482 Mystic
Watermark Creations 860-663-3912
 

 

Stamford  Area
By Invitation Only 203-975-8988 Stamford
Waterbury Area
A Day to Remember 203-879-5943 55 Richard Ave Wolcott
American Speedy Printing 203-574-5884 720 Wolcott Waterbury
Arts & Letters 203-755-9748 45 Frieght Suite 2 Waterbury
Colonial Card and Gift 860-283-1595 400 Watertown Rd Waterbury
Ct Print Service 203-272-7300 1701 Highland Ave Cheshire
Paptererie Depot 860-868-1990 8 1/2 Titius Washington
Eagle Printing 203-754-6218 309 Meriden Rd Waterbury
Laurel Party Shop 203-757-2789 464 Reidville Drive Waterbury
Naugatauck Valley Engraving 203-756-7345 35 Stevens Waterbury
Allegra Print & Imaging (203) 574-5884 720 Wolcott Street Wolcott
Alternative Graphics (203) 879-6440 78 Kingswood Lane Wolcott
By Invitation Only (203) 879-6169 Wolcott
City Printing (203) 756-6773 1575 Thomaston Avenue Waterbury
Morrissey Marty Waterbury Printing CO (203) 575-1411 344 Wilson Street Waterbury
Parties With Pizzazz (203) 758-5446 20 Smokerise Circle Prospect
Prospect Printing LLC (203) 758-6007 6 New Haven Road Prospect
Wedding World (203) 757-2836 31 Woodtick Road Waterbury
New York Area
Apple press 914-723-6660 Scarsdale
Calligraphy by Trifene 914-736-5985 Cortland manor
Cedar Grove Gifts 914-937-832 Port Chester
Decorative lettering 914-628-4629 Mahopac
English Elegance 914-243-3699 Amawalk
Fine Lines 914-232-4856 Katonah
It's your Wedding 914-242-0077 Mt. Kisco
The Wedding Shoppe 914-962-3465 Yorktown
Calligraphy
Blue Horizon 203-271-0717 Cheshire
Elegant Wedding Calligraphy 203-374-9936 Easton
Calligraphers Ink 203-544-8559
Calligraphy by Laurie 860-350-1312 New Milford
Calligraphic Creations 203-847-5715 Norwalk
Suzanne Burr 203-261-6061 Westport
Giftique Ltd 203-329-9797 Stamford
Letters by leslie 203-227-6797 Westport
Madame Sophie's 203-865-3267 New Haven